Chronic Fatigue – how I recovered & what it taught me

Cassandra Duffill
Naturopath | Health Haven

Chronic Fatigue - I recovered twice, so can you | Health Haven Natural Medicine Clinic

Chronic Fatigue – how I recovered & what it taught me

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If you’ve ever wondered whether you should see a naturopath or your GP, you’re not alone. It can be hard working out the right way forward, so this article was created to help you find some clarity.

The two approaches are often positioned as though they’re competing teams: conventional medicine on one side, natural medicine on the other.  Over the years I’ve seen many people put their stake in the ground, and refused to look at the other.  I believe the reality is far less dramatic, and has to align with what is best for the patient or client.

Conventional medicine and naturopathic care come from different perspectives and look at health through a different lens.  Each has strengths, limitations and situations where it may be particularly useful. For example, if I break my wrist I’m going straight to the ER for plaster, not to my herb cupboard.  

The key is understanding that the choice may not be one or the other, but which suits you best in a certain situation and how to use each to your advantage.

I’m well known for saying I don’t bump around my house in the dark, refusing to turn on a light because it’s a modern invention. So I don’t believe we have to one-eyed on either side.  The best approach is knowing how each can help you so you can work out what you need and when, and blending the best of both worlds.

Conventional Medicine – diagnosis, treatment and acute care

Conventional medicine is the healthcare most of us are familiar with. You might see your GP when something feels wrong, have pathology or imaging performed, receive a diagnosis, be prescribed medication, be referred to a specialist or undergo a procedure when necessary.  Its strengths are particularly clear when something requires urgent investigation or intervention.

If you break a bone, develop a serious infection, experience severe chest pain or need surgery, you want conventional medical care. There is no herbal tea on earth that should be trying to compete with an emergency department. 

Where people can become frustrated is when they have persistent symptoms without a straightforward diagnosis, or when treatment manages the condition but they still don’t feel particularly well. I know that was my personal experience and the entire reason I sought a naturopath in the first place.

They might hear: “Your blood tests are normal.” “Everything looks fine.”  “It’s probably IBS.” “Just keep taking the medication.”

And yet they’re still tired, bloated, uncomfortable, struggling with food, sleeping badly or feeling as though their body simply isn’t functioning the way it used to. That’s often when people start looking for answers and support elsewhere. I know I did. When my GP told me my digestive issues were my “new normal” and I just had to “get used to it”, that’s when I started the search for help outside conventional medicine.

Naturopathy – what does it do and where does it fit?

Naturopathic care generally takes a broader look at the person sitting in front of us. Rather than focusing solely on an individual symptom, we spend time exploring the pattern around it. That may include things such as: digestive function, food intake and nutrition, sleep, stress and lifestyle, menstrual and hormonal patterns, medications and supplements, pathology results, previous illness or infections, family and health history, energy levels, bowel habits, the timeline of when symptoms began and what was happening around that time

The question isn’t simply: “What symptom do you have?”. It is broader. We ask “what else is happening, how do the peices fit together, and what’s exacerbating it?”

Where a standard doctor’s consult gives you 10mins of rushed discussion, a naturopathic initial consultation gives you an hour a more (90mins at Health Haven) to share your health concerns in detail. The longer consultations naturopaths provide are particularly useful when someone has several symptoms, interconnection issues or has been dealing with a health issue for a long time.

A naturopathic consultation allows the time for us to delve into the issues and understand what’s happening.

Naturopathy is not just “taking something natural instead”

This is an important distinction, as many people think the difference is naturopaths just give supplements and herbs instead of pharmaceuticals. But it’s so much more.

The aim is to understand what support may be appropriate for the individual and to use treatment thoughtfully.

Depending on the person, naturopathic treatment may include nutrition, lifestyle changes, herbal medicine, nutritional supplementation and other supportive strategies.

Sometimes the most useful recommendation is actually simplifying what someone is already doing.

Because taking an entire kitchen cupboard of supplements isn’t automatically more holistic.

Naturopathic consutlations, the key differences

One of the most noticeable differences for clients is usually time and the depth of consultation. The duration allows us to spend more time understanding what’s going on, and how we can help.

Naturopaths also take the time to understand YOU, what your health goals are, the best options to support you and even what your budget considerations are. At Health Haven we make sure we create a plan that suits your life as well as your budget.

And something we do, that not many naturopaths do, is support you in the time between consultations. Many clinics seem to forget their patients exist between appointments, but we don’t.  From our private client portal where you can message whenever you need, to our check-in calls and the others ways you can contact us if you need us, you are never left wondering what the next steps are.

What About Testing?

There can also be differences in the type and purpose of testing used. Conventional medicine uses pathology, imaging and other investigations to diagnose disease, assess risk and monitor health.

Naturopaths may review those same results alongside a person’s symptoms and history, and in some cases may recommend additional testing where appropriate.

More testing, however, isn’t always better. At Health Haven we only use testing when it’s clinically relevant, will add to our ability to support you, and fits your budget.

Naturopaths at Health Haven can order any pathology you may need, the main difference being that we cannot bulk-bill your tests as doctors can. Many clients bring their results to us that they received from their GP.

 Testing should create clarity, not be an expensive fishing expedition.

Where naturopathic care can be useful

People often seek naturopathic care when they want more support around persistent or complex health concerns. That might include digestive symptoms, fatigue, food-related issues, hormonal concerns or chronic health presentations where several systems appear to be involved.

Others already have a medical diagnosis and simply want additional help with areas such as nutrition, lifestyle, symptom support or general wellbeing alongside their existing medical treatment.

The naturopath’s role isn’t necessarily to replace the medical care already happening. Often it is to work alongside it.

Can you see a naturopath and a doctor at the same time?

Absolutely. Many clients and patients choose to do both. However if you’d prefer to only see a naturopath, that is fine too. Our goal is to work with you for the best outcomes in your health, in whatever ways you feel best.

You might have a GP or specialist managing diagnosis, medications and medical monitoring while a naturopath works with you on nutrition, lifestyle, digestive health, supportive treatment and other aspects of your overall care.

It doesn’t have to be one or the other.

Should you be receiving medical care while working with a naturopath at Health Haven, we are very happy to keep your doctor or specialist in the loop with regular reports and information, should you wish us to.

Our Goal is the Best Care for You

Healthcare becomes much more useful when we stop treating different professions as though they need to compete. There may be times when you need a prescription. There may be times when you need surgery.

There are also times when you need someone to spend an hour looking at the last five years of your health and ask why several seemingly unrelated symptoms may have appeared together.

At Health Haven, our approach is to work within the bigger picture, using naturopathic care to support to you.

If you’ve been dealing with ongoing symptoms, a complex health history or simply feel as though the pieces of your health haven’t quite been connected, a naturopathic consultation can help you take a more detailed look at what’s going on and what your next steps may be.

If it’s time to get help with your health, book a Naturopathic Consultation here. We look forward to supporting you.

People often joke and say I was the “sickest naturopath they’ve ever met”… but living it was no joke. Long before I became a practitioner, I was the patient. I had to recover my health twice from chronic fatigue, and today I want to share what that was like, and what it taught me.

No one knows the journey better, and how to recover, than someone who’s experienced it first-hand.

Where it started

At 17, I had my first bout of EBV (Epstein Barr Virus). At the time, I didn’t realise how significant that would be, or that it would set the path for what followed over the next decade. At the time it seemed like a right of passage, a lot of teens in my year level where contracting it. They all seemed to be off school for a few weeks, but then came back and seemed fine.

I remember how sick I was though. In reality I had been a sickly kid, the type that always had tonsilitis and ear infections (so much so, my tonsils were removed when I was 6).  But EBV, that really was another level, I’d never felt so bad before.

Like most people, I was told to rest, recover, and that my body would bounce back. And for a while, it seemed like it did.

But something had shifted, and I just didn’t realise it at the time.

Fatigue that doesn’t go away

After this first round of EBV things seemed fine. I bounced back (although I had lost a lot of weight from not being able to eat from the ulcers in my throat), but other than that, I seemed fine.

Until 3 years later when I got sick again. EBV take two, with pneumonia for good measure.  I was just 21 years old at the time.

This was when the chronic fatigue hit. This wasn’t just being tired. It was waking up exhausted, dragging my feet through wet concrete all day, and not feeling rested after sleeping 12 hours at night.

I’d been active, loved to dance and spent 6 nights a week doing so, but all that had to stop as my body just wasn’t behaving like it used to. 

I couldn’t think clearly, had no resilience and was catching every virus going around (I even got a warning at work for taking too many sick days).  I tried to push through, but the pushing came at a cost.

Being told everything is “normal”

Like many people I now work with, I did the rounds. Tests. Appointments. Different opinions. And over and over again, I heard the same thing: ‘everthing looks normal’.

When I wasn’t improving my doctors words change to ‘you just have to get used to it’.  This was also the time in my life where I was living in a mould-ridden rental, developing chronic digestive issues and struggling to keep my weight at a healthy range.  Clearly, something was wrong.

Recovery phase one

At this point in my life, my mid-20’s, I didn’t realise that all my health issues were actually linked. I was still trusting doctors and specialists, who were dissecting my health into ‘compartments’… the gut person, the heart person, the neuro guy for headaches.  It was many years later I’d work out the links.

But what I did do at this time was stop trusting what they were telling me, and started to forge my own way forward.  I took time off work, I rested (properly), supporting my nervous system to finally switch off.  I dealt with symptoms as they came up using natural alternatives I found. I changed my diet and removed gluten, dairy and all the triggers I had at the time.

In time I started to come good, but it took about three months before I felt like my energy was coming back.  What I did by accident this time (because I didn’t know any better), is I didn’t keep the healing up long enough for it to last long term.

That’s why in my 30’s, chronic fatigue second round hit me. 

Different trigger, same pattern

At this point in my life I wasn’ t yet a qualified naturopath, but I was studying.  I was a busy ‘stay at home mum’, who was also a ‘work from home mum’, with a FIFO (now ex) husband.  I was still getting sick all the time, my gut was a mess and my energy was unreliable, but I didn’t have time to deal with it.. I was so busy taking care of everyone else.

In my early thirties my chronic fatigue (that was never fully healed) was triggered again.  I had an acute flare of EBV… 6 weeks later I had Ross River Fever… 6 weeks after that I had Influenza A.  My body couldn’t fight through anymore, and chronic fatigue was back.

Falling asleep when I’d sit down for just a few minutes, yet unable to sleep at night.  Bones that felt to heavy to carry, and feet that felt like they were dragging through wet concrete.  

Thankfully this time, I had some learning behind me and had a better idea of what I needed to do.

Chronic Fatigue round 2

I wasn’t starting from scratch, I’d been through this before, and this time I had knowledge to back it up. I could see what my body was doing, where systems were under strain, what needed to be addressed first.

And I worked through it step by step.

This was not an easy recovery, it took the better part of a few years to get fully back to 100% (plus I got divorced, started a business and supported two spectrum kids througout). But in time I got there, and I know you can too. 

Fatigue is never just ‘fatigue’

What I see over and over again, both in my own experience and in clinic, is that fatigue is a signal. It’s the body saying something isn’t working as it should. But unless you look at the full picture, it’s easy to miss what that is.

If you’re struggling with chronic fatigue right now I want you to know I feel for you, it’s a heavy road to travel.  But what matters is that you were well once and I do believe you can be well again. Your body knows what ‘well’ feels like, it just needs help to get there.

And given the right support, in the right sequence, with the right approach, it can become healthy and well again.

Is this where you are now?

If this is where you are – dealing with ongoing fatigue, told ‘everything is fine’ (but you know it’s not) or you’ve tried things and haven’t been able to shift it… you are exactly the kind of person I work with.

No need to keep guessing or trying random things. The next step is understanding what is really going on (and to let someone else do the thinking for a change, you deserve a break!).  

Together we can work through this properly, step by step. Start with an initial consultation and we’ll map it out together.

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Thanks for reading x
Cassandra Duffill, Naturopath

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